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Am I Autistic? A Guide to Diagnosis for Adults

With the availability of  information about autism spectrum disorders (ASD) on the internet and other media sources, some adults may start to question whether they have ASD. The path to self-discovery may start when your child is diagnosed (this happened to my friend, Judy Endow), someone in your life may point out that you have some ASD traits, or you take an online ASD test which says you are likely autistic.

It’s not uncommon to receive a diagnosis in adulthood. Not as much was known about autism over 30 years ago, diagnostic testing has changed, and we are still struggling today with identifying women. Because ASD characteristics are becoming more known to the general population, undiagnosed adults are becoming aware that these characteristics explain their significant life-long experiences and struggles. Strong academic performance did not necessarily result in gainful employment. There have been problems expressing emotions, socializing, maintaining relationships, or on-going mental health issues such as anxiety or depression.

A New Understanding Of ASD

After reading and researching ASD and feeling certain this information describes yourself, you may experience an identity shift towards one that is autistic. Reflecting back on moments in your life, you may view things that happened in a different context, through the lens of autism. Retelling the story of your life may now have the ASD perspective. Remembering your stories, reflecting on them, and receiving feedback will change your narrative. This process of self-discovery helps to make sense of what’s happened in your life – how having ASD has shaped the way you think, react and feel. Maybe some of the confusion is gone, you understand yourself better, and in time you can share this discovery with people you trust.

This new identity may also cause feelings of loss, resentment or anger. It’s OK to feel this way as this is a life changing event and it can feel overwhelming. Try to think about the positive things such as your strengths. People continue to grow, change and adapt throughout their lifespan. You can learn new skills and find new ways to do things that may make life easier and more comfortable.

Do I Need An Autism Diagnosis?

Some adults may question whether they need a diagnosis later in life. Some people self-identify as autistic without receiving an official diagnosis. It’s a personal decision. What can be helpful in receiving the label is access to supports and services that may not be available without a diagnosis, i.e. an income support program that provides additional income if mental health issues prevent being able to work full time. Maybe you need a job coach, a support person to look in on you a couple of times a week, specialized mental health services, or supports in the workplace. A diagnosis can also provide peace of mind and validation that indeed, you do have ASD.

Self-diagnosis in the adult autism community is widely accepted. You can join a support group or get together with other ASD adults without a formal diagnosis. Pursuing a diagnosis can be expensive as most health plans won’t cover the cost and it can be difficult to find a professional who is adept at providing an adult diagnosis.

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Assessment for Autism Diagnosis

A formal diagnosis is done by a psychologist, psychiatrist, or neuropsychologist who does adult ASD assessments. A good place to start to find such a person is through your local autism society or by contacting the governing body for that profession. Most have a college or association and they may be able to provide you with some names of people in your area. You can also ask around, maybe through members of a support group. How did they get their diagnosis – who did it? If there is a local university or medical teaching hospital, there may be a psychology department you can be referred to.

If a formal assessment is too expensive, contact the local autism society or services organization to see if they have someone on staff or a consulting psychologist. Some universities, hospitals or clinical centers offer assessments by supervised graduate students who need practical experience in diagnosing. If you are in on-going therapy for other issues, a therapist may suggest the possibility of ASD and be willing to give a diagnosis.

Keep in mind that there is no standardized screening tool tailored to adults that is universally endorsed. Some of the autism tests specifically designed for adults are: ADOS 2 Module 4, ADI-R, 3Di Adult, OCI-R, AFQ, SRS 2, RAADS-14, AdAS Spectrum.

What to Do Next After Receiving an Adult Autism Diagnosis

I have written about what to do after receiving an adult diagnosis so please consult this article for guidance. There is also the decision on who should be told about the diagnosis. I’ve written an in-depth blog about that.

If you want to be in a support group, contact your local autism society to see what they offer for adults. There are also on-line support options available. Here is a list of the groups on Facebook.

Here is a list of ASD resources and articles specific to women:

Autistic Women & Nonbinary Network (AWN) 

Musings of an Aspie

Scottish Autism Online Support Programme for Autistic Women and Girls

Article  – Asperger and Autism Spectrum: Women and Girls

Article – The Dilemma for Women Diagnosis

The path to adult diagnosis is not an easy one and can have many challenges. Awareness and information around receiving an adult ASD diagnosis is improving, though. There are ways to connect with others and find support. Reach out and explore the many resources that are listed in this post. Read the insights of other adults on the spectrum. You will find that you are not alone.

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  1. Amanda says:

    Thank you for this article! I think my husband is on the spectrum and I’ve been talking to him about getting a diagnosis and this article was helpful understanding how to get a 29 year old diagnosed!

    • I am glad you found this article helpful. There are many adults who are now seeking a diagnosis so your husband is not alone. There is a much greater awareness now around autism.

  2. Bethany Burd says:

    Hi , I live I Pennsylvania my name is Beth
    I’m not sure if I’m autistic beacuse I’m really socially inclined..but I have no friends. I just talk to people about anything. I’m also having a hard time finding a dr near me who can help. I dont want to be turned away . I’m kinda lost. I reached out to Ruth as you said in your other article to do for several other people. She said she cant help out of state. I understand I’m just wondering where to go next. Do you have advice?
    Hope this make sense and doesn’t sound desperate.

  3. Renee says:

    Thanks for this article, it was very helpful. Although I didn’t care for the test very much bc I didn’t understand some of the questions. What does it mean for your memory to be a steel trap? Or what is an “eccentric professor”?

    • Renee, it would be easier if the writers of the test just said what they mean. A steel trap memory is having an excellent memory and you don’t forget things easily. Eccentric professor means a person who is very intelligent but behaves in a strange and unusual way.

  4. Debra says:

    Well, this just summarized my entire life. “Strong academic performance did not necessarily result in gainful employment. There have been problems expressing emotions, socializing, maintaining relationships, or on-going mental health issues such as anxiety or depression.”

  5. Jennifer says:

    I tried that test but it seemed very stereotypical, like the math and professor questions. I’m still looking for a test to help in self diganosis .

  6. TerrieLynne Allan says:

    Maureen Beenie i under stand ! its not straight through! it took several re-routings and fancy footwork to finally get through (*45min it took me)
    i had to stop a re-start once. i can’t imagine if i was worried or rushed. 🤔😥😯
    i need help for my daughter and i am at my wits end also! – covid is a disease killing the world lets not let it kill our spirits though

  7. Linda says:

    Can anyone help please

  8. Beth says:

    Very insightful, thank you

  9. NO No says:

    I clicked on the online ASD test and nothing comes up.

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