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It has been over 10 months now since the COVID-19 pandemic began. For many, nerves are beginning to fray and mental health issues are on the rise. Everyone is struggling trying to juggle online schooling, supporting the health and well being of their family, unpredictable changes to protocols in the outside world, and the uncertainty of the future. Sometimes it helps to bring perspective to the situation for both yourself and your children.
Wouldn’t it be great to be able to control what other people are doing when it comes to follow the rules? But alas, we can’t. Think about the things we aren’t in control of and try to let those go.
There is a lot in your power even if it doesn’t always feel like it. These are the things we can control.
I am struggling at home like everyone else is trying to juggle working and have my two adult children at home with me all day long. Here are some things that I think are helpful to boost one’s mind and spirit.
I’ve been talking about the importance of exercise in my past blog posts. Getting outside for a walk or bike ride really improves mood. It also helps for a better night’s sleep. Take a walk alone to clear your mind. Try walking in nature, if you can, to reconnect to the earth. Time outdoors also means time unplugged from electronic devices.
If it’s hard to take your children out of the house, head for the backyard. I just wrote an article on backyard fun. The backyard can provide change of scenery and pace. If you are inside all of the time, the walls start to close in.
For many of our kids, online learning has not been the best mode of delivery. It can also be difficult for parents to provide support to their children when in a learning environment. Education can come in many forms through everyday activities. Doing everyday things can increase skills and learning while providing enjoyment. Here are some ideas:
Our routines we had before staying at home happened may have changed. Establish new ones based on how the day runs now. Make the bed, get dressed, have regular meals, schedule outdoor time, have set work hours if you can. Everyone feels better when there is some predictability in the day, especially when so many other aspects of daily life are out of our control right now.
Some days I get up full of ideas and what I’m going to accomplish only to find it all go to the wayside because supporting my children becomes the priority. Now, I am trying to think of one simple thing I can get done rather than 4 or 5. Today, I’ll make beef stock. Tomorrow, I may organize one drawer or sort through some clothes. If I am able to get more than that done, great. If not, I feel like I did the one thing that was on my list and it feels great.
I try to do one thing for myself every day, even if it is just for 15 – 30 minutes. Self care is important during this time of unprecedented stress and worry. Simple things can bring a lot of pleasure. Here are some ideas:
Look at the positive side of COVID-19 statistics and where other countries are in the world with the pandemic. All of our efforts have flattened the COVID-19 curve. Appreciate the medical advances we’ve made. There is a huge international collaborative effort on coming up with a vaccine and treatment. We’ve had other health crises before and have successfully managed them. Things will eventually be OK- we just don’t know when yet.
Follow some of the good stories – Captain Tom is my favorite.
Be kind to yourself when the day doesn’t go right. My children are having unpredictable anxiety spikes right now which have to be managed and that takes time. They are my first priority, but I also know I need to think and do the things that I have talked about in this post to maintain my own mental health and happiness. It’s important to have a sense of accomplishment each day and that is achieved by doing small, simple things. It’s normal to feel tired and tapped out right now. All will be well – just keep a positive outlook as best you can and let go of what you can’t control.
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